These books, recommended by relationship pros, will help you improve your partnership in
the short and long term.
No matter how well you get along, how much you have in common, how often you put time and
care into your connection—all relationships go through ebbs and flows. And while you might not
need therapy, adding new tools to your repertoire can strengthen your bond and bring you closer.
One easy way to invest in your couple hood is to read the same advice book and then talk about it.
We asked relationship therapists, experts, and gurus, to recommend their top read to create
healthier, happier duos in 2022.

Stamped From the Beginning by Ibram X. Kendi
“Change begins at home, and this book offers a solid foundation for couples that want to create a
home culture that values inclusion, challenges biases, and is committed to antiracism. If racism is
going to be uprooted, it is essential to know where it started from; this book reveals the stories at
racism’s roots. As you read, I encourage you to share your thoughts and reactions; talk about what
stood out to you, how reading it made you feel, and the things you are left thinking about. Lean
into any discomfort you may experience and hold each other accountable for your actions. We all
have the power to decide which values are important to us, and this book helps equip couples that
want to be intentional about their family passing on honest stories about people and history.”
—Michelle Felder, LCSW, MA, the founder and CEO of Parenting Pathfinders. 
 
The Seven Principles For Making Marriage Work by John Gottman, Ph.D.
“This book is based on longitudinal research done by the primary author who studied many
couples for many years to determine what factors were responsible for creating happier and
healthier long-term relationships. His work is highly respected and groundbreaking. Dr. Gottman
found ways to help couples show more appreciation and respect for one another and change their
negative behaviors in how they interacted with each other. Ultimately, he discovered that a key
reason couples were happy in long-term relationships was that they had a solid friendship
together. This book incorporates much of these findings from Dr. Gottman, along with exercises
and questionnaires for couples to work on to better understand themselves and their relationship
and ways to improve it together.” —Dr. Yvonne Thomas, Ph.D., a Los Angeles-based psychologist.

Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel
“This book offers a unique and refreshing perspective on intimacy, love, lust, and fueling the
connection that romantic partners share. Perel focuses on supporting the longevity of
relationships. Perel explores the nuances and complexities of sex and intimacy and brings to light
what couples can do to live and love passionately. Her real-life examples make this book relatable,
while her expertise provides readers with invaluable knowledge and insight. I encourage couples
to enjoy this book together or read it separately, but talk about it afterward; share what resonated
with you, what surprised you, or what parts of your relationship you were reminded of. This book
can help couples begin an honest conversation about intimacy, desires, and their hopes for the life
they’ll live together.” —Michelle Felder, LCSW, MA, the founder and CEO of Parenting Pathfinders.

Selfish Path to Romance: How to Love with Passion & Reason by Dr. Ellen Kenner and Dr.
Edwin Locke
“This is the best book I’ve found that covers in-depth how to successfully navigate a romantic
relationship from finding a partner that is a good match to nurturing the relationship, to even how
to break up if the relationship isn’t working. It is also unique in addressing the moral aspect of a
relationship. The word ‘selfish’ in the title means self-valuing and self-respecting, which the
authors explain is critical for a happy and healthy relationship. Unlike usual convention, they
explain why sacrifice is destructive to a relationship, and instead, each partner must learn how to
compromise, so they both are happy and fulfilled effectively. I highly recommend this book to my
relationship clients because the deep underlying problems in most relationships stem from
sacrifice and build-up of resentment. The authors explain how to prevent this and maintain
benevolence and intimacy in a long-term romantic relationship.” —Steve Orma, PsyD, a clinical
psychologist.

The Couples Guide To Thriving With ADHD by Melissa Orlov and Nancie Kohlenberger
LMFT  
“People I am sure have married and divorced not understanding what went wrong. Dealing with
ADHD is pretty common in relationships, but most people don't even realize this and its impact on
their partner or relationship. Maybe you have a sloppy partner or a partner who never finishes
projects you ask. Don't get mad. Think of ways to help and different strategies beyond realizing
their issues. Lots of built-up anger can impact relationships, and it helps you get past the anger
and see this from another lens so that you can communicate effectively and feel happier in your
day-to-day relationship.” —Susan Trombetti, matchmaker and the CEO of Exclusive Matchmaking.

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Click here to editCheck out the top spots for anniversary vacations in the U.S. and abroad.
Whether it is your first anniversary or your 50th, you may be thinking about hitting the road (or the skies!) for an epic anniversary trip to celebrate your nuptials. Not only do you deserve this romantic getaway, but it may be a first for you, at least in the last few years since the onset of the pandemic. 
It is true that, with mass vaccinations underway, and infection rates finally turning towards a decline, per the Center for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), there is no time like the present to research anniversary trip ideas and plan a special vacation. In fact, travel experts are already seeing major spikes in travel and tourism, and the numbers are projected to continue climbing through 2022. Many people stayed home for a year or longer because of the pandemic, and now that travel advisories are lifted, people are feeling safer traveling, everyone is ready to jet off into the sunset. Also, many people made more and spent less money during the first year of the pandemic that they had prior to that, and are now in a more financially comfortable financial position to travel.
If you are looking to travel in 2022, your chances of an unforgettable trip are pretty high. So many destinations are back up and running and are eager to satisfy travelers coming through—especially those looking to celebrate something special, like an anniversary. If you are in the midst of planning a romantic vacation with your significant other, here are some of the top anniversary trip ideas and destinations to hit in 2022. 

New York City
As the saying goes, “New York City is always a good idea,” and this is definitely true when it comes to celebrating your anniversary. One thing is for sure: There is no shortage of things to do and fun to be had in the Big Apple. On the list of romantic activities, you can catch a Broadway show, visit one of the city’s Michelin-star restaurants, check out one of the cool art galleries, walk across the Brooklyn Bridge, take a day trip to the Long Island wineries, shop around SoHo and even kiss atop the Empire State Building. And when it comes to places to stay, the options are really endless. A central location and a romantic ambiance is a must for an anniversary trip. Consider the Loews Regency New York Hotel, situated right on New York’s Park Avenue and within walking distance to Central Park. With a fun and vibrant Art Deco feel, you can enjoy breathtaking views of the city in most rooms and book yourselves a treatment at Julien Farel Restore Salon & Spa located right below. 
Cabo San Lucas, Mexico
With low cases of COVID, Cabo San Lucas is a hot destination for all sorts of travel in 2022. It is located on the southern tip of the Baja California peninsula and is beloved for its crystal clear waters and white, sandy beaches. One of the reasons Chase recommends it to clients looking for a romantic getaway in the midst of the pandemic is because it is located close to many places in the world, especially the U.S., and hotels are able to operate at full capacity again. On the list of romantic, splurge-worthy resorts, Waldorf Astoria Los Cabos Pedregal sits at the top. It is situated on a 24-acre site at the southernmost tip of Mexico’s Baja California Peninsula and offers more than just gorgeous beaches and an outdoor infinity pool. They have specific offerings for couples to enhance the romance, including their Lovers Soak Tub Experience, which involves sipping champagne in the property’s signature soaking tub while enjoying sweets from the resort’s on-site pastry chef, a private cliffside dinner at El Farallon by the Sea while overlooking crashing waves down below and their Sun-Kissed Love package, which includes roundtrip air transfers, daily breakfast, dinner for two at their Don Manuel restaurant, a rose petal turndown and 20 percent off spa treatments. 

Boston, Massachusetts
If you are open to staying in the United States, this charming city is set up for romance in a humbling, yet bustling way. Although this New England city is one of the oldest in the nation, which it’s founding dating back to 1630 (yes, seriously), it is constantly changing, If you are on the hunt for a romantic hotel to stay at for your weekend getaway, consider the newly opened Omni Boston Hotel at the Seaport, the largest hotel to open in Boston in more than 10 years. With more than 1,000 rooms and suites and 22 floors all with breathtaking views of the city, it is home to three restaurants, a full-service spa, a rooftop pool open 365 days a year and grab-and-go coffee shop offering a carte du jour of breakfast and lunch items. If you are a first-time visitor to Boston, be sure to check out a tour of historic Fenway Park where the Red Sox play, visit the Museum of Fine Arts, enjoy a classic Italian meal in the North End and take a stroll in the Boston Public Garden.

Napa, California
If you and your spouse appreciate a good glass of cabernet, chances are, California wine country has been on your list of places to visit for some time. Not only does it offer up some of nations, and maybe even the world’s, best wineries (next to Sonoma), but it also provides picturesque views of the rolling countryside, not to mention access to some outstanding restaurants where you can sip on this local wine. If nothing else, it is the perfect place to cheers to another year or marriage, especially if you stay at one of the romantic resorts like The Meritage Resort & Spa. Just five miles outside of downtown Napa (biking there is even a possibility!), this luxury resort has everything you need to unwind, relax and toast to your marriage, including their award-winning, underground spa, on-site wine tasting and classes, candlelight yoga offerings and Tuscan-inspired restaurant. Napa is also just an hour drive from San Francisco, so you can hit both destinations with one romantic weekend road trip.

Virginia Beach, Virginia
Another great anniversary destination in the U.S. that is idyllic year round is Virginia Beach, Virginia. From unbeatable ocean views, wildlife reserves and national parks and state parks to top-ranked cuisine, scenic golf courses, shopping and entertainment, the city offers a huge range of indoor and outdoor activities and opportunities for couples celebrating their anniversary. There are plenty of beautiful places to stay, but to make the most of your romantic getaway, consider The Cavalier Resort, which sits against the Atlantic Coast at the Virginia Beach oceanfront and home to Virginia Beach’s top four restaurants on TripAdvisor: Tulu, Becca Restaurant, Orion’s Roof, and Hunt Room. Also located at the Cavalier Hotel is their Sea Hill Spa—the perfect destination for indulging in a glass of champagne and toasting to your marriage. Do not forget to head to the nearby Norfolk Botanical Garden—a scenic gem near Virginia Beach. 
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​Here is every box to check off for a seamless ceremony at the venue of your dreams, whether it is a house of worship, a botanical garden or a beachfront property.
 

1. Find and Book Your Site

First, you need to find the ceremony venue. Researching ceremony sites should be one of your first to-dos, so if you are getting married in 14 months, start the search process about 12 months out. Before you book, have a chat with the site manager to make sure all your questions are answered and your ceremony needs can be met. Now it is time to make it official, and, as with all your pros, you should absolutely get it in writing. Along with the basics, like the date, location and time of your wedding,
 

1. Rent Ceremony Essentials

Not every ceremony venue will have everything you need. If your site does not include essentials like lighting, electricity, tables, chairs or suitable restrooms, you will need to contact a party rental company to complete the space, like a ceremony arch, here are some must-have items you might need to rent for your ceremony:

• Chairs
• Cocktail tables
• Columns or Arch
• Candles
• Portable restrooms
• Sound equipment
• Heaters or fans

 

1. Prepare the Actual Ceremony

Now it is time to think about the marriage service. Research readings and religious or ethnic customs and traditions you would like (or might need) to include in your ceremony. 
 

1. Meet With Your Officiant

Set up a meeting to discuss any literature you intend to incorporate with your officiant. This is also the time to ask your officiant for any ideas and advice if you are stuck on which readings or customs to use. Have your officiant give you a copy of their standard ceremony so you can ask questions, clarify uncertainties and make changes to suit you (if allowed).
 

1. Finalize the Ceremony

By now, you should have a pretty good idea of the overall structure and main elements of your ceremony, including readings, candle lighting, other special rituals and music, as well as who will participate in each. If not, now is the time to enlist trusted loved ones to do a reading (this is a special way to include a dear friend or relative who is not in your wedding party).
 

1. Gather Ceremony Extras

Determine which of the following ceremony items you will need and start shopping or make arrangements to have them made or ordered. Do not forget your florist or planner may also be able to provide a few things.
 
 
 
 

1. Write Your Vows

They are going to be beautiful. Start working on them together at least two months before the wedding to avoid a last-minute scramble and more pre-wedding jitters. Definitely do not be afraid to consult your officiant for help on this front as well. Chances are they have seen many couples through the process of crafting unique and meaningful vows and will be happy to lend a hand.
 
 
 

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​We totally get it you love your dog. Treat your pooch to these stylish registry picks. Do not forget to include these fabulous gifts for your puppy on your Wedding registry.
 
Puppy Pad
Give your pup a relaxing place all his own. This puppy bed has micro-cool gel to control heat and gel-bead support for ultimate comfort.
 
Bring Your Buddy
If you and your spouse are travelers or constantly on the go, do not leave your puppy behind. Skip the clunky metal kennel and opt for a space-saving collapsible version that will not take up precious luggage space.
 
Clean Machine
If your dog tends to shed, definitely splurge on a great vacuum. And not just any vacuum, but one made to lift and remove every pesky strand from any surface.
 
Ceramic Storage
Store puppy chow in one of these beautiful glazed ceramic canisters for a needed updated from plastic bins. The snug lid keeps the kibble fresh, while the stylish design will fit your home's aesthetic.
 
Fountain Fresh
Keep your dog hydrated with a water fountain attached to his bowl. It continuously circulates water, so it is always aerated and freshly filtered.
 
Treats and Toys
Store all of your dog's favorites, from treats to toys, in this cute, bone-shaped wicker basket.
 
 
 

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​Outdoor weddings are certainly beautiful and romantic. Outdoor weddings bring with them additional pitfalls and caveats, but if you follow our top tips, you will shine on your wedding day. But in many cases, they are not always as easy to plan as they may appear.
Work with the local natural beauty. 
One of the advantages of having a wedding outdoors is the natural beauty surrounding you, which lessens your need to decorate extensively. But you still need to do some planning. Take a look at your wedding site a week prior to your wedding to make sure that everything looks the way you want it to.
Think comfort.
Consider what the weather will be like at the time of your ceremony. If it is going to be hot and sunny, do not leave your guests sweating uncomfortably. Have your ushers provide guests with ice-cold bottles of water when they are seated. Think about printing your wedding program on a fan so that guests can use them to cool themselves. For an extremely warm location, consider renting electric fans and/or a tent for shade. If it is predicted to be damp and cold, you may even want to have portable heaters or lap blankets available.
Be ready for the wind.
Avoid light fabrics like silks and chiffons for your dress and your bridesmaid’s dresses. Let your hairstylist know that your wedding will be held outdoors so she/he can plan accordingly.
Can you hear what I hear?
While you do not need to worry about rushing wind or the roar of the waves at Geronimo Oaks, sound does not always travel well outdoors. Consider a sound system with clip mikes for the bride, groom, and officiant so all your guests can hear.
Shade the sun.
Consider scheduling your outdoor wedding at sunset surrounded by the warm glow of the sun. If you are having it during the daytime hours, position the ceremony so that the sun will be on the backs of your guests instead of in their eyes.
Develop a backup plan.
The perfect outdoor wedding location has an indoor location waiting just in case it is needed. Many brides and grooms choose to have their ceremony outside and the reception inside. If needed, the tables can be moved to the back of the room while the ceremony is taking place. A tent is another option, but this will only work for light-to-moderate rainfall. Heavier rain will soak the ground and leave guests with muddy and soggy footwear. Make sure if you rent a tent that it is has thick, weighted sides so it will not flip over.
 
Consider the drinks.
Because alcohol causes dehydration, consider serving a selection of teas, punches, and lemonades. Have plenty of ice and water on hand as well. If you want to serve a fancy cocktail, consider a classic mint julep or a mojito to cool and refresh your guests.
Prepare the feast.
Hopefully, your caterer has experience planning an outdoor wedding menu. Take a moment to ensure that they are planning foods that will keep well outdoors in the heat and avoid things like dishes which must be served cold, such as mayonnaise-based foods.
 
 
 
 

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​No matter how long you and your soon-to-be spouse dated or how many times you have been a bridesmaid in your friends’ weddings, there are some truths you just do not find out about until you get engaged.
 
1. You will not be able to stop staring at your hand.
You have this amazing new piece of jewelry on your finger. That alone, plus the once-in-a-lifetime significance of the symbol, is enough to make you want to stare compulsively at your ring finger. Even if you are not a “jewelry person,” you are still obsessed.
Our Advice: Everyone is going to want to see the ring, so get a manicure and be careful gawking at your hand while driving or crossing busy intersections!
2. You will have to tell your proposal story a million times.
As soon as you get engaged, one of the first questions people will ask is how you got proposed to. Get used to it. Telling and retelling the story is part of the fun of being engaged.
Our Advice: To make it easier on yourselves, submit your proposal story to How He Asked and put it on your wedding website too so your friends and family can get all of the details.
3. Recently married friends will suddenly become wedding planning experts and give you (oftentimes unsolicited) advice.
There are plenty of reasons this happens. Some friends may be going through the post wedding blues and miss the excitement of planning their own weddings. Others may just think they are doing you a favor.
Our Advice: If a friend offers wedding planning advice, take it in stride. Graciously accept it as a sign of their friendship. If you agree with the advice, take it; if not, thank them and move on with your plans.
4. You may not be wearing the perfect outfit on the day of your proposal.
Whatever fantasy proposal you had dreamed up at the most romantic place in the world, wearing the most perfect dress, with the best hair, nails and complexion you have ever had, may not happen in reality.
Our Advice: Your proposal story—whether it happened on the couch in your pajamas with no makeup on or in the middle of the Caribbean in a hot bikini—is more important and special than that fantasy proposal you might have had in your head. Why? Because it is your story and no one else’s.
 
 
 
 
5. People will ask you about a wedding date and location before you have even had a chance to think about it.
You know how it goes: Everyone is excited. But before you have had time to begin working on your checklist, your family and friends are already asking for details like the venue and your wedding dress.
Our Advice: If you have no idea where and when the wedding will be, come up with a blanket statement you can use whenever someone asks. Say something like, “We are so excited just being engaged right now. I am sure there will be plenty of time to figure out the details in the coming months.” They will take the hint.
6. Not everyone will be happy…
There is usually at least one person who may come off as less supportive or elated as the rest of your friends and family. If this does not happen to you, be thankful, because you are in the minority.
Our Advice: A not-so-positive reaction to your good news is a reflection of that person, not you. Do not dwell on negative feedback. Focus on the positive—you are getting married!
 
7. …But your best friends will be there for you.
You will know the people you can count on. They are the ones who post five-exclamation-point messages to your Facebook wall the minute you announce your engagement, take you out for drinks the day after you get engaged to celebrate and tell you they are ready to help you with whatever you need.
Our Advice: Lean on the friends who express excitement for you (and celebrate your newly-engaged status often!).
 

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​What are the most popular first-dance songs today? Not sure which song to choose for your first dance? Spotify has come to the rescue. Thanks to the vocals of popular artists like John Legend and Bruno Mars, each hit has “dancefloor-ready” written all over it and may even cause a tear or two to fall.
Top 10 First Dance Songs Globally:
Ed Sheeran, “Perfect”
Ed Sheeran, “Thinking Out Loud”
Etta James, “At Last”
John Legend, “All of Me”
Elvis Presley, “Can’t Help Falling in Love”
Christina Perri, “A Thousand Years”
Ray LaMontagne, “You Are the Best Thing”
Jason Mraz, “I Won’t Give Up”
Ellie Goulding, “How Long Will I Love You”
Ed Sheeran, “Perfect Duet” (Ed Sheeran & Beyoncé)
 
 
 

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If you are still hazy on separate bridal showers, the mother-son dance, the rehearsal dinner and other miscellaneous mother-of-the groom mysteries, do not fret—you are in the right place. Here is an etiquette roundup with the solutions you need to pull off your role perfectly.
 
Can the groom's parents host the engagement party?
Anyone can host the engagement party but tradition dictates that the bride's parents have first dibs on the soirée. The groom's parents can then throw their own party, or both sets of parents can come together to host one jointly. The rehearsal dinner is the domain of the groom's parents.
What are the traditional mother of the groom responsibilities?
Typically, the bride is in charge of assigning tasks, and the degree of mom involvement should be left to her discretion. The mother of the groom can take over any of the wedding planning responsibilities once you get the go-ahead from the bride. And for a full rundown, see this detailed list of traditional mother of the grooms duties.
If the groom's family and friends live far away from the bride's, can the mother of the groom host a separate shower including only the groom's loved ones?
It is most traditional to have just one shower, hosted by the bride's attendants (or her family), with the mother of the groom and other groom family members included on the guest list. Even so, many brides have a several showers—one at work, one with friends, one back home at her mom's. The groom's mom should just make sure to touch base with the bride's maid of honor to let her know that her decision to throw a separate shower is because of the distance. The point of a shower is for all of the women close to the bride to come together for a few hours of gift giving, good food and bonding. If the two camps are not able to mingle, everyone should try to keep the bride's interests at heart and go from there.
Does the father of the groom have a specific to-do list?
The father of the groom can get in on many tasks—definitely include him in any of the things you plan on tackling yourself, or split your to-do list down the middle.
What can I expect from the mother/son dance?
The mother-son dance is an especially touching tradition and a wonderful way for the groom to honor his mom. Both the mother-son and father-daughter dances usually take place towards the end of the reception, before cake cutting time. What will happen: The DJ, Bandleader or banquet manager will announce that it is time for the father-daughter and mother-son dances. Often the groom and his mom are up first.
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​From taking a ring selfie to narrowing down the guest list, here are 15 things to do to kick start your wedding planning process. This is the moment you have been waiting for. Holy moley, you have an engagement ring and you are getting married! It is so surreal, yet definitely happening, and like it or not, the hours, days, and weeks following that proposal is guaranteed to be a whirlwind. Do not be overwhelmed. You have plenty of time to plan the rest of your lives but if you are like most newly engaged people, you will be itching to share the news with all your friends and dive into the actual wedding planning part headfirst. Pinterest boards, bridal magazines, blogs, dress shopping; venue hunting…the list goes on and on. Years of watching wedding movies could not have prepared you for what is to come while the average engagement lasts a year to a year-and-a-half, there are certain things you will want to get done stat — no matter how long you plan on being a fiancé.
Call Your Parents
And your siblings and BFFs too, the last place they should have to hear about your new status is on social media, so give them a ring personally and tell them the happy news.
Get a Manicure
Your hands will be in the spotlight for the next couple of weeks, which means your manicure best be on fleek. Or, if you are going for the natural look, make sure your nails are clean and shaped. Otherwise, friends will be focusing more on your chipped nail polish than your gorgeous engagement ring. Not cool.
Post a Ring Selfie
A picture is worth a thousand words, right? If you are ready to share with the world that you are engaged, open up that Instagram! Take a ring selfie or a sweet pic of you and your fiancé to share the love. Even better—if the actual proposal was caught on film, nothing is better than that look of surprise. And do not forget to make it Facebook official!
Get Your Ring Sized
If the ring fits, great, and if not, you will want to take it to your jeweler stat to get it sized — especially if it is practically falling off your finger. After all, you would hate to throw thousands of dollars down the drain mere moments after saying yes.
Get Your Ring Insured
We know, we know — it is not exactly the most romantic or exciting thing in the world, but it could wind up saving your butt in the long run. When added as an extension to your homeowner or renter’s insurance policy, it is surprisingly inexpensive.
Think About A Date
The most desirable wedding dates and venues get booked far in advance so if you are hoping to get hitched in the next year or two, it is a wise idea to start thinking about dates now. Find out what works for both your families and if there are any potential conflicts.
Research Wedding Venues
Remember: You cannot book a date until you have nailed down your dream venue! Do some research online first, or maybe you already have a place in mind and can call to get more information on pricing and availability.
Discuss a Budget
Money talks, but unfortunately, no one likes to talk about money. It can be, well, awkward. However, before you can really move forward with any of your wedding plans, this is a discussion that has to be had, be it between you and your spouse, or you, your spouse, and the parents.
Determine Your Wedding Size
Whether you are going big or keeping it small, being on the same page about this one is so important. Get your family’s input if it matters to either of you or if they will be footing the bill. Once you have agreed on a rough guest count and budget, you can commit to a venue.
Gather Inspiration
Create a Pinterest board, Google Doc, save photos on Instagram, or create a folder on your computer to compile imagery of your favorite wedding elements. Keep it to yourself just for organizational purposes, or share with your wedding planner, mom, friends, fiancé, and whoever else to view and contribute.
Interview Planners and/or Vendors
If you are considering bringing a professional planner on board to help with logistics and décor, ask around for references and do a little online research, then set up some interviews. For the vendor referrals alone, a wedding planner is totally worth their weight in gold! Or, for smaller affairs, go directly to the source and check out a few vendors on your own.
Relax!
Do something fun, just the two of you. Mini golf, bowling, ice skating, a trip to the beach — whatever floats your boat and brings out the kid in you both. Wedding planning can be insanely stressful from the get-go, so try to find the humor in things and take some time to laugh, reconnect, and remember why you’re getting hitched in the first place.
 

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​We've all heard of the bridezilla. You know, the bride who gets carried away with wedding planning and switches into perpetual freak-out mode. But this can happen to the groom too. Know a groom who is taking his helpful attitude and wedding enthusiasm on a trip to crazy town? Here are a few symptoms of a groomzilla in the making.

1. You take him to a cake tasting but he gets impatient after one hour, even though he asked to come in the first place.
2. He pretends to be stuffing envelopes, but secretly refuses to pause his movie marathon.
3. He keeps adding random people you've never heard of to the guest list and freaking out when you veto them.
4. So he deletes your favorite cousins just to get back at you.
5. He complains about not having his own shower and is not satisfied when you suggest having one together.
6. He rents a nacho cheese fountain for your reception behind your back, when you specifically told him that budget was for your parents' thank-you gifts.

 

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