One of the most complex decisions for the bride and groom is who to invite for the wedding. The couple gets the maximum share of the invites. Selecting the cream de la crème is very essential to maintain good relations with family and friends. Some people should be given top priority in the invite list. Though it is difficult, some people need not be given the invite. Depending on the RSVPs, some people can be included at a later date. Select the event venue based on the final list of the invites and make sure to accommodate for any unforeseen addition.
Making an initial list with your partner The two of you should sit down and try to focus on common contacts. The immediate family comes first and then come close friends. Make it a general rule not to invite friends with whom you didn’t have contact for the last three years. The first list should not be shared with the families. Stick to the cutoff point regarding family invitations Inviting extended families is a complicated task. Most families follow the method that uncles and aunties belonging to the same generation get the invites. The invites are sent out basing on the capacity of the event venue. Outdoor wedding venues are being preferred by a lot of modern couples. If it’s an outdoor wedding venue then you’ve some latitude to enhance the number of guests on the list. Decide whether to invite children It’s totally up to the couple to decide whether to include the children. Whatever may be the decision, take a stand and don’t deviate from it. Most importantly, do not make exceptions. Return the kindness Make sure to invite the people who have invited you to their special event in the last 18 months. If you have attended the event of a friend, some 4 years back, they need not be included in the list.
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How not to give your Great Wedding Toast
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AuthorThe Texas Hall Archives
March 2022
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